Posted by Anonymous on 2013/01/18 under Uncategorized I feel like… I’m going to be alone forever. I’m 19, life is fine, I’m not struggling… I just feel alone. I’ve never had a relationship, nor have I even ever had female friends. Every time I try to even speak to a female that I find attractive, I have no idea what to say, and fear denial, or that she won’t like me. I feel like I’m destined to be alone, to go through life, with no one to share it with. I have no family left, I recently moved several states away from them, for issues which I don’t feel comfortable going into. I’m stuck, alone, and afraid that I’ll always be. I just don’t know what to do anymore about ever even talking to a female. I don’t have much self confidence, and I don’t find myself very attractive. I don’t know what to do now, should I simply just always carry on alone? I’ve tried to talk to females in the past, and I feel like I just do something supremely awkward, and they end up feeling awkward. I’ve never even had my first kiss or anything like it, never really had any female friends in general I suppose. I need some advice, can anyone relate, or if they were in a similar situation, what did you do to fix this? What do I do from here, simply carry on life alone?
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I assure you that you will not be forever alone. As a woman myself, you are the kind of guy that I would be attracted to. I hate those men that think they know everything about us and use us. It is dumb. Just be nice. Maybe reach out a little more. There are a ton of things to talk about, just ask general questions to get to know someone. And remember… you are only 19. There are a ton of ladies out there that would be happy to love you. .xx
I used to be the same way when I was like 12-14…the things is that we are all just people..you cant keep thinking that girls are a lot more complicated to talk to then any guy friend uve had. We are as easy to talk to as any guy its not like we are from another species or something 😀 You should just have a normal conversation with a girl..start off with a smile and just ask how her day is going and maybe keep a long conversation until she notices how u listen to her. A girl really likes a guy who listens. Also there are some girls(like myself) who find shy guys very cute. 🙂 so just try, okay? and dont give up on the first try..remember there could always be some girl who are..lets just say…difficult.